| Location | Glasgow |
| Age | 6 days |
| Cause of Death | Premature Birth |
| Date of Birth | 27/09/2009 |
| Date of Death | 03/10/2009 |
| Visitors | 2,930 since 12/10/2009 |
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Well it all started on the 27th of september when i got took up for a heart trace.
His heart beat wae to fast they asked me to go back in 2hours go have something to eat and for a walk to see if the heartbeat would slow down.
When i went back 2hours later nothing had changed the heartbeat was still to fast so they thought that he was gettin destressed and decided they were going to keep me in and send me for an emergency section.
Declan was born at 18:23 and weighed 2pounds 8ounces he got took to intensive care.
When Declan got sent there he was doing really good and was breathing by his slef he only had a tube up his nose to feed him and a drip giving him fluids intill he was ready for milk.
He started getting milk throuh the tube when he was 2days old as he was ready as he was doing really good.
Then when he was 5days old early hours into the friday morning declan had took unwell.
We went up on the friday to see him and got took away by a doctor for her to speak to us.
Declan had an infection through his full body he was also bleeding on the left side of his brain and a bit on the right side his bowels were swollen.
They werent sure on how he was going to be as he was badly unwell he looked so terrible the worse was going through our head.
Come the saturday we got told declan had got alot worse and that his kidneys had clappsed and his body was swollen with the infection as it was getting bad and that we had to think about turning his machines off in the next 24hours.He needed alot of medicines help breathing and morphine to stop the pain.
He needed a blood tranfussion as his blood was low and the sugar init to.
Come the satuday afternoon we wanted to start asking question and as we did we got told declan was doing a bit better but he could get better before he got worse.
He looked so much better tho then he did on the friday.
Come saturday teatime declans heart had stopped as we stood by our baby he wasnt coming back throught they tried for 20mins but his heartbeat just wouldnt get stronger.
As we stood by him they doctor and midwife had stopped and had said sorry for what was happening.
As i held declan in my arms he took his last breath it was so hard for us to watch our baby boy die right in front of our eyes.
Sleep tight angel xx Gone but not forgotten you will always be in our hearts and thoughts and the brightest star in the sky
Love mummy daddy and your big sister chloe xx
Well all love and miss you millions xx
For Andrew
Daddy
Daddy I know that losing me,
Is so very hard for you,
Yet no one seems to realise,
How you grieve for your Angel too.
Mummy’s sad; you don’t know what to do,
She cries so often and you can’t see,
How you can help her cope with,
All the pain of losing me.
I know that you feel useless,
How her pain just will not heal,
But Daddy put your arms around her,
Just tell her how you feel.
Mummy knows that you are hurting,
But her grief is just too strong,
She can’t always look past the tears,
To see you’ve been there all along.
Daddy cry for me if you’ve a need to,
That’s fine, I’ll wipe them if I can,
Because I’m your Angel too you know,
And crying makes you no less of a man.
Angel day xxx
A...Angel my star my light
N...Never lets me down at night
G...God gave me the very very best
E...Eternity now i am put to the test
L...Love like never ever before
Angel Angel dont ever close your door.
Copyright© Sharon Wheeler
oh 2 years already
hey baby boy i know that its a happy day and u should celebrate ur birthday in heaven baby hope u had a gd 1cant believe u would have been 2 2day love n miss u loads auntie christine xxx
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♪♫•**•.Angel Birthday Blessings.•**•â˜†.｡.•*
.......…….HAPPY 2nd BIRTHDAY
…....….....……Declan X
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Happy 2nd Birthday!!
Hey Declan,
I just wanted to pop by and wish you a happy birthday! I cant come up to visit today as I have work but i doesnt mean that I wont be thinking of you today.
I wish you were here with us today so that we could celebrate your special dau with you but instead we will be sending up HUGE birthday kisses to Heaven so remember to look out and catch them!!
Your big cousins will be up today and Uncle Alan and I will be over at the weekend!
We all love you and miss you so much!
Bye for now x x x
A Birthday In Heaven - by Kris Smith
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My Birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a Birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play the fool
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
With love from your little Angel xxx
Happy Birthday Declan
Happy Birthday in Heaven Declan,
Youre 2 years old today
How we wish you where here with us
But that just cant be so
I hope you celebrate your birthday
As special as it should be
with train rides & angel birthday cake
because your so special you see.
I hope you have fun sliding down rainbow slides &
use your fluffy clouds as a trampoline too,
this is what we would want for you.
Even tho we miss you dearly
As im sure you always see
When we blow a kiss to your star each night
Im sure you blow one back for us too
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Our Beautiful Boy
Into the sky with the angels were we look up at you,
We think of the smiles we will never see,
We think of the events that will never be.
You are not lost forever,
But just for a while,
We will meet you again,
And experience that smile.
There will be no first steps and no first teeth,
There is only a void and our own loving greif,
We wanted to teach you as your life unfurled,
We hoped to show you around our new world.
Sorry you did not get to stay,
To laugh and run and play,
To be there by our side,
But were glad that you tried.
God did not take you because he was mad,
He did not send you to make us sad,
But give us all chance to be,
A love so pround......do you not see?
God, we stand before you broken-hearted,
And ask you to heal these lives that must be parted,
From this little one we can no longer hold,
Who will always be a part of us even when were old.
God, take this child in your loving arms,
No more can he suffer any harm,
Bless him always and bless us too,
Be with us and help us to make it through
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